To whom it might concern:
I have been into this forum sometimes and I thought it was a shame not to contribute with something, when I see how much energy some of you are putting into it.
I am going out of Lovers Planet on Friday because I have found someone, so I want to share my experiences.
I would like to point out that I am not a sex tourist. I always contact the woman of interest before I travel.
It is not important if there are no museums or theatres in the (small) town. But I can recommend to visit a theatre if there is music involved.
You can take a walk in the park, in the wood or sit at a restaurant to have a talk.
If you don't feel the urge to kiss or hug her after (and she responds), lets say, 2-3 hours of effective time, then leave town. OK, give her one day.
Then leave for another girl, which you of course have booked in as a reserve.

Check your logistics on this issue!
To stay five days for the first meet is a waste of time. It is not worth taking the chance. Chatting and telephone calls is only meant as a starter, to make contact.
Some history:
(In this period I thought it was neccessary to see a woman for many days the first time.)
Last year I met a woman in Kiev. She was waiting at me at Borispol airport. She was drinking her fifth pint of beer when I met her and she offered me to drink. We drove to the hotel and the first thing she asked for was more beer. So we sat in the suite and looked at the sunset drinking beer.

It was a miserable meet. The last night I went on the boozer and nearly missed the aeroplane the day after (normal priced ticket, before the Wizzair era, see below). She overslept, missed her aeroplane to Minsk, and asked me for a new ticket at the airport when I checked in.

Can you guess the answer I gave her ?

Of course I should have filtered her out, because she was drunk on the telephone twice. She said, "sorry, only this time" twice. I have also met one psychopath (one year relationship at the time I met these other two I am talking about) and one unstable person (very intelligent). So I have had my share. Ubung macht die Meister ! Is what I say.
This might not be easy for US citizens to have so much "fun" as I have had, but in Europe it is NOW possible to reach Kiev for $ 66 t/r with Wizzair. One has to pay $ 40 for the taxi from Borispol to the city in each direction.
Stay at an apartment if possible, it is much more convenient.
I hope this story have brightened your day !
Have fun !
Don't give up.
From the east with love.
