sex at the first dating

Boys, have you any opinions?
Don't be in a hurry - I do not ask with light or without...
Are you ready to cross the half of the world (well a couple of the countries) but remain without sex.... or you should shout "Look scammers around... She promised me many funs"
The most of the girls at the forum think that sex at the first dating is bad idea.

certainly you can ask...anyway it can be subjective.

We each as adults have our own opinion on this, their are those who probaly do expect sex. I for one veiw this as a topic between two adults If I travel accross the world to meet someone and when arrive she has no time or spends little time with me then one can never form a real connection so sex is doubtful. Lets be for real here also I can go down my street and find a lady for sex so why would I pay thousands of dollars to travel half way around the world for sex? But like i said we are all adults here so each must make up their own minds.

Are you talking about the first time you go out with a woman or sometime during the visit.For me that is not the reason for the trip. And would never meet a woman if that was all that she wanted. Sex should be only with someone you love not just to give her a test drive.

If there is chemistry then that should be discussed in a mature and adult fashion. Just to make sure that the two of you are on the same page when it comes to sex.

And yes when I visited Ukraine we had sex but it was after we were engaged.

Sex is nice and when you have sex with the right person, it is amazing, but I'm not just looking for sex. I want somebody who is warm, an interesting conversationalist, opinionated and fearless, courageous and faithful, all within reason. And yes, a woman I find attractive would be nice, too.

That being said, I could see making the trip and not having sex. Certainly not the first time I see her. I can wait. Hugs and kisses would be fine, too.

We absolutely need to build trust and find out if we're even attracted to each other.

That being said, at some point I would like to know if she likes sex. But that is a very private conversation.