Positive focus

I'm starting this thread in hopes for positive and insightful information. There are so many beautiful ladies with such varied backgrounds in education and life experiences that I feel we all can find the one. I for one have chatted with several ladies in the last few months and can tell you only what I have found. First I feel most are very secure and forthcoming and all but one appeared to be who they claim. That one was flagged by administrator. What I would like to see posted is some positive aspects of this site we tend to focus a great deal of energy to the negative. So share your successes as well…

I was intending this to be a positive thread

I came to the forum in hopes of obtaining positive information; however I found myself engaged in the negative side of online dating scams lies and deception. I miss the positive comments. I will not engage in the forums any longer as they tend to take away from my intent on this site. I wish everyone the men as well as the ladies the best of luck with there search.

Mike

agree with you Mike, the negitivty is overwhelming here, I don't understand why common sense issues have to be discussed to the extent they have been here, such as all the scam posts, in fact this is the reason I don't participate anymore.....and good luck to you......

Chill,

Stick around, please. Your input is needed. We are seeing more communication from the ladies forum and we need sane, rational participation.

Hi guys!
I would like to ask you - from whom depends our positiv or negative?
It seems to me - just from us.
then lets see nice in everything around.
someday one man said me good bye
a answer - I'll go rather - thanks and bye.
isn't it bad or nice?
It's life and experience!
Mike!
Lets return please

Good luck Mike has been nice having you in the forums. And I feel much the same way I no longer look for anyone on here just here now for the forum. Tried of the liars and scams and the double standard

Sorry don't know your name.
I was learning to take lie and scammer - do you know how?
I think when person lies - he (she) lies at first to theirself.
and life is Mirrir. you want to see the lie - you will see it.
I don't want and I don't see.
and also. we get lessons from life. If we got and understood - we go father.
if we gor and didn't understand - we'll get the same lessond at second.
P.S. I removed my profile from site some weeks ago too - lol

Yes I will take her at her word until I catch her in a lie and on here it is not hard.

Sorry - I don't understand - what you want more - to find someone special or to catch on lie words?
If I was offended and angry with each liers - I was finised without beginning.
take it easy.
in any case what you loose and what you get?
each unsuccess makes me one step closer to purpose.
Good luck!

no I am not just looking for lies. I have been engaged to a wonderful woman. But due to other factors we had to call off the engagement. So I know that good women are out there but they are few and far between.

I just expect the woman that I am planning on meeting to live by the same standards that she wants from me.

Like taking down her profile and not starting new correspondence with other men. Would you meet a man that continues to search for women after he has said that you are the one and he is coming to meet you.

And I don't mean take down her profile and put one up on another site

Thanks for reply.
I see you have positiv experience.
tell me please - how many time you have to know woman and to ask her remove her profile?

Decided to join the discussion, because having a positive focus is very important indeed. As for me i decided one day that nobody will make me not to trust people! I am open and i will be, because this is my way of living and my life, and i will trust people because this is how i see relations. And i think that lie is the thing of the inner world of a person, of his or her upbringing and etics.

Boys, if to speak about positive focus...here is the last story of a happy love:

Спасибо, постараюсь ответить. 26 июня мне написал мужчина, 27 я ответила, 28 договорились о встречи в скайпе, 4 июля я получила деньги на дорогу и на личные нужды и 5 августа я уехала, потому что ждала в посольстве документы и визу. Вот и вся история.
As you see: he found her profile on the 26th of june, got her reply on the 27th of june, spoke in skype on the 28th of june...on the 4th of july he bough the tiket and sent her money for the road. On the 5th of August she came to his country. Now they are together.
We can name such tactics: "Came, saw, won". She had not time to hesitate, she had not time to search somebody else, she had not time to get the question "May be he is not serious about me"...so he is a winner. By the way a normal man far from Alen Delon or Bred Pit (Im not sure that I wrote these names correct in english - but i hope you understand what i mean).
Be sure the world is very big and sertainly there are a lot of good girls... who is quick gets benefits

Hi there! I'd wanted to see more positive and successful stories here because it means that if somebody have it I also can have my story and it gives me strength not down my hands and see what will be. When I first time read this forum I was really very upset because all comments here was about scammers, but if you - men, so afraid them what are you doing here? I agree with Radol that positive and good and honest people more. Of course it's a pity that bad persons exist but you shoud be careful and at first look at yourself in a mirrow and think - can this very young lady to love you and if she betray you it's your guilt too that you allow her do it with yourself. So, I think that there is adult people and before to do something should think what to do. But I wish everybody good luck and I'm really happy when I read new successful story.