Some men need to grow up

I just got done reading some of the ladies forums, loved the Hawaii one as I spend a great deal of time there. It's interesting to hear someones opinion who does not live here. I also read several comments in different forums that were I can't say shocking but totaly out of line. Some of the ladies shared some msgs they had recieved from men. Sick is one word that can discribe but does not go far enough. Now someone please explain to me why they would join a site for the purpose of finding a lady just to act like an ass? Some were filled with sexual overtones while others were plain sexual. What kind of man comes here and contacts a lady with 'hey how are you lets screw' No wonder some of the ladies are reluctent to get to know someone. All I'm saying grow up and act like you were raised with some manners, treat others as you would like to be treated yourself. I know there are plenty of web sites out there that would love you to join and you can play in front of a cammera all you like. But keep this site for what it was intended for.

wow thats to bad, the ladies should report these idiots to the site, I would banish them immeadiatly...... and there profiles should be posted for everyone to see who they are. very upsetting to me.

That is why I have found some posts in social network pages about this behaviour in western men with slavic women...some of them are really angry for this, very reasonable.

So bad...

I agree publicly post who they are and then perhaps they will crawl back under their rocks. Its sad that these men feel the need to screw everything up by being complete ass's

Right on Mike.. I totally agree. But, I will say, I have read posts on their site where they advise each other to go meet the man "Regardless... At least you get a free vacation".

So I think this knife cuts both ways, plus I think some of these ladies attract what they appear to advertise for. They can't pose for a photo, which is obviously taken by someone else, wearing undies or bed clothes and not expect to attract the lowest denominator man.

Ya know what, I like to fish... and the first thing a fisherman learns is the bait you use will determine the kinds of fish you will attract!!

So while I absolutely agree with you, men who are looking for this kind of entertainment should choose a site that caters to that type person and stop assaulting the good ladies. I am not surprised that some of the ladies may receive that kind of response.

Not to say that all ladies who receive messages like this deserved it. I certainly hope they report the creeps and have them banned!! They shouldn't have to tolerate that kind of trash.

Oh.. and I think that is a great idea!!. They could have a "perv board" with all of the offenders listed!!

James

hey guys, I just visited the ladies forum for the first time, OMG, after reading 2 post I had enough, there should be a perverted label attached to there profiles for sure........hopefully they have been banished......and of coarse if he was an american you know there are some here who would associate these actions to all of us.

Is anything easy to catch...... Really worth catching? My answer is no! And there is not a country out there without perverted men in them..... Men are men everywhere, just some of us were raised with manners....

upsetting to me as well chilltown, i also briefly read some of the ladies forum, yes banish them, good idea........

Hi Guys . Its a sad fact but having chated to people on other sites . Uk and International . There is many a sexual overtone in many messages sent to woman . Many guys are also married , and looking for kicks . Obviously that means that woman are getting so many naff msgs that how can they tell good from bad and where does there , Iv had enough , cutoff point kick in . Flirtation , yea i can deal with that , but Hey honey send me you underpants wouldnt appeal to me

I think they should put a lable to there profiles like the High Risk they put on some of the women they could say, 'Married but cheating' or 'plays with self' Ok that was just for laughs but i agree this is sad, but in the web everyone can log in.

haha, your last lable surely would discredit the individual, especially if the photo was attached as well, I think the women can report these people, but not sure what is allowed with the sites standards....I'm thinking they can get away with these type of letters, who knows?