Over Analyzed

does anyone else think some of these posts are just way over analyzed? the pefect woman has bot been born yet or the man. we have to compromize and the women wii too, if your searching for perfection you will be waiting a long time I believe. if people would focus on 1 lady instead hopping from site to site. there search will end sooner than they can imagine. if it looks like chicken, tatse like chicken, then its chicken.

I have read some posts over analyzed yes, I believe more in trusting with the obvious rational mind.

The Best things in life come without so much overanalyzing, that in a deep sense is fear, instead I always expect the best and try of learn of the process, I try to enjoy it!

Unfortunately, I don't think they are over analyzed. If the girls were "local", there would be little risk in meeting them for a date. To see them them personally, meet their friends, see their environment and having the opportunity to "get to know them" would be a natural process.

Trying to meet a lady from another country is far different. There is very little middle ground. Unless you have the ability to go and stay with her for weeks or months and see her in her normal daily life.... or, she can easily come be with you for weeks or months, which could be a time consuming process with considerable expense. The only way to get to know your lady is to speak, ask questions and consider the answers. Beautiful photos do not make a good woman.

Then.. at least as far as my decision... and only then, would I make plans to move to the next level and visit or allow myself to become "emotionally" involved. This is because I have a family that depends on me to make good, conscious decisions in their behalf.

AND.. to make matters worse, there are many scammers looking for a foolish man to take advantage of. So, even if the girls are sincere and true, they must make it past the "scammer firewall". It is sad the world makes this so, but that is the reality.

SO, ... I wholly support examining and considering before becoming emotional. Of course, my motive is to find a good eastern European wife. If it is just to have a fun holiday, maybe it doesn't matter as much.

I can tell you right now. I know at least ONE girl on this site, that is doing just that. At this moment if the information is correct from another site, she is on an island holiday with men paying for the adventure. She's listed as a "guest" with photo and name..

Anyone here want to marry her????

Good information, can you give us any clue to recognize this woman that you tell is now in an island?

Shes blond.. and her name begins with "A". The other site I won't name... When trying to find a good site, I joined several, and finally decided this was the best site to search on. WHY?

1. Direct contact
2. UNLIMITED contact and video capabilities
3. No restrictions on info exchange

You simply pay a basic and reasonable member fee.. ( Don't think it reasonable? go pay 6$ a letter at Anastasia and see how fast it adds up)

What this means is: You get to see the lady... have unlimited REAL conversation. If she is serious, she will give you her personal email, phone and address. ( if she won't, DROP HER!!) Many times when online, you will see the children or family in the background.. (you know she really DOES have one child or lives with parent)

The only difficulty I have found, is if they use an "internet cafe" and have no internet at home. But even still, they can contact you enough to find ways to communicate.

If they are being coy and won't give you contact information.. she goes WAY up on my list as a possible scammer.

I won't say "A" is a spammer, because I am not yet convinced of this... but in my world. Being paid (free trip) to meet men, DOES have a name.. which I won't repeat here. Definitely NOT wife material!

OH!.. I want to add one more important point!.. Most of these Ladies have strong pride. They will never tell you if a situation for them is not good. So, if near the first of the conversation, they begin to speak of, "no food".. "medical bills"... "child's needs", Father won't support (he probably doesn't, but they won't speak of this)... needed repairs.. DROP HER!!!!!!!!!!

ONLY a scammer will try to open these doors of conversation.. they hope you will become sympathetic and Volunteer to send money to "help out". They want YOU to have the idea!!

A strong Russian woman will ALWAYS want to be perceived as capable and in control.

What is her Main dating purpose in her profile?

Ha Ha, the Island girl, interesting, gentelmen beware there are many scammers or professional women everywhere, and there tactics are becomming more an more clever, It's unfortunate for those who get caught up in it, personally I think there are those who do it for survival because of current living conditions, but also many who do it as a buisness because it's quick easy money. I avoid any profile with the word generous as a trait they are looking for.

trusting ??? Mmm . talked for 3 months , 2 hours a day. went there ? loved her. Made love with her ??
took me to all places. spoke of children , future , desires, life as a shared experience ??
but she played me ?? to get her ticket to America .hasnt spoken to me since ?? played 2 guys off ?? Mmm , now im not a stupid men , but this was not ?? expected ?? So wind yourself up guys , cos theres some seriours players out there , so i guess not over analized ?? cost me $1500 ,guess i cant go back in a hurry ?? shame i wasted so much time on a someone who pretended she was interested. yea , this hurts . hence the quiet period. dont usually display faliure , but this was a shot from the dungeons of the world ?? Beware ? cos i doubt you will be the only one ?
And yes i am dissallusioined, to the point of , whats wrong with our nieghbours. The girl next door ?? why are we looking for someone who just seems to want to benefit ?? someone who can just walk away at there convinience ??
dont give me a hard time reply ? cos i realy dont need it . ok ?

wow I feel bad for you catskiblu, I don't know what to say.

Unbelievable!... Thanks for sharing "Cats"... Even the best can be fooled. Its a shame...

thanks guys . womans games eh. Internet dating ? leaving me a little cold these days

wow! Is all I can say.......sorry to hear that.......

Sorry for my english ignorance...There are some points I did not understand Cats..
Was she playing with two other men apart of you? Did you buy her tickets for going to America and then she disappeared?
Is that what you meant?

Did you find her here in LP? Is she still active here?

Wow, this is really shocking!

I don't think we can really understand what's in the hearts of others until they show their true colors. Sad that we can not detect faster so we can move on to the real ladies before this kind of thing happens.