As the world turns....

Hello Everyone.
Again, thank you all for your comments on the Forum.
I wanted to share with you, my experience with a women I met this past month.
I have not talked about it as yet, as it still is quite fresh and I have been trying to feel/investigate
any possibility of this women being someone different, then who I think she is.
I am posting this because
-I would like to read your observations and advice about this situation.
( Please excuse me if this runs on a bit)
About a month ago, I was cleaning out my inbox and I noticed, I had many emails from a large fee based marriage agenecy.
I opened one of the emails and investigated the link/site.
I guess, I signed up a long time ago..met my last girlfriend in real life and then simply forgot about it for 3 years.
On the site, I noticed I had a lot of emails from women and I had 2 credits left over in my account to email them.
I spent a few hours reading all the generic intro letters in my mailbox and out of 103 letters, I picked one women to write to.
It was not a hard decision as there was a "feeling" that I already knew her, by the words that she wrote.
I sent her a nice introduction letter asking about herself and told her some things about me.
She responded a few days later with a very nice short but detailed letter about her life at present.
She did answer all my questions as well.
She was very excited about us connecting and mentioned things in her letter that only I knew, I wanted in a partner.
As in all things..when the going gets too good, I need to step back and investigate the reasons.
- I was also in a bit of a pickle due to if I was to keep speaking to this girl, then I would have to invest a bit of money
to continue.
Yep, I needed to research.

Red flag issues I had to figure out.
1-Even though she could speak almost fluent English..all letters would be passed through the same translator to make sure we did not share personal info. We could share only post addresses via email.
We could share info over telephone via translator but I wasn't ready for that yet.

2-Each letter I opened cost me X amount of dollars..

I decided I had to go on my intuition but not be foolish about it.

I paid to write 5 more letters each way.
I figured by that time,I can figure out the best way to confirm.

I checked her phrases,stats and any other info on a deep web search.
The only thing I found, was her listing on another site,with the exact same information.
They were both registered about a month before I joined, so I knew she spoke the truth about her recently joining a agency.
I also could see the costs to write her was very low. 5.25 credits.
That meant she was hard to email- does not answer a lot of emails and is not online a lot.
( I bookmarked the page that shows whenever she goes online..and it is consistent with when I receive a letter every few days).
We have written each other 13 times each over the last month
and each letter seems very real and with detailed answers to my questions...Our words have brought us very close and it seems very beautiful.
Never has there been talk of Money or Visa's..just me coming over there someday to continue the next step.
We have both spoke of our future dreams and we are both in tune to the same frequency.
She is very excited about this meeting and wants to email/msn/skype me without a translator in real time.
I am not ready to phone her until I know it is her.
I decided the best way to confirm her address would be to was send her a rose along with my email and teddy bear.
I will be receiving a photo of the delivery as well if all goes as planned
It should be delivered today or tomorrow.
Stay tuned.

Definitely SKYPE her.... There should be no risk.. and what better way to get to know her than to use SKYPE and speak directly. Be sure to buy an inexpensive camera so she can see you and ask that she has one so you can see her as well.

Anastasia has a very big bad reputation, search in the Internet.

If you have success it will be an important testimonial that refuses all those bad comments in the internet about that site. I registered by curiosity and I've receive almost one thousand mails in some months, even when I don't write to any girl there.

I have read that they send prewriten mails by the translators to men according with the profiles info. That is their business, to be paid for every single letter you read or write.

Keep us informed about your experience. I don't trust that site.

Yes..I admit I am swimming with the sharks on this one.
I read all the bad stuff about that site after I started to email her.
I do understand that all the girls write a generic letter at the start and
they can send it to as many profiles as they like.
I am sure the agency promote$ thi$ emailing as there cannot be that many women interested in me- but there must be some girls who do not know this when they sign up? Some girls must have the right intentions but not the best agency.
I assume if she was communicating with other men, her credit costs would become much higher then the lowest cost anywhere on the site. I mean there are much less attractive women with higher credit costs.
Plus, she does not come online very often ..1 time every few days and I get a nice letter shortly after.
This girl does seems genuine in her words and hasn't fallen in any set traps I have laid.
I am eager to find out the truth.
Update..The florist emailed and said they went to the mailing address she gave me but she was not at home.
( I figured this as I had no phone number)
They left a note with number at the door and she called them shortly thereafter.
They are now delivering the flowers tomorrow and I do hope they take the photo I ordered.

Will I get the girl I know or a old lady named Helga?
And if it is the girl,will she know who I am??
All will be revealed soon.

I had also been a member of Anastasia some time ago and yes it has a bad reputation and most of the leters I had received were fake but there was this one woman I communicated with that seemed very genuine (after much checking) but in the end I just left. This goes to show that amonst many bad apples there is a good one so I hope it goes well for you

I too tried this site and to this day recieve canned letters never open or read any of them as they seemed to taylored to be true.

I agree, that they are canned but I assume the girls write them in general to their idea of a Man/Husband and then the agency translates and spices up their English.
Now here is the question..Do the girls themselves come into the agency and send these generic emails out to ideal profiles; or does the agency provide this service?
I tend to lean towards the second one in most cases as it makes more business sense for the agency for profits.
I assume the agency does send emails out to non compatible profiles as well.
But all in all this still is not a bad thing if you use what they give you.

If you spend time and look at all the profiles and read what the girls had to say-you can get a feel for who might be
the proper choice to contact.
If you use your intuition, you can see through the weeds and perhaps find something precious.
A women's words can tell you a lot.
Words are energy and they effect us in many different ways..some words will resonate with you more then others.
If your soul mate is out there looking for you, then she will use certain words and phrases of speech ( energy patterns) that seem very familiar to you.

Yes Law of Attraction is present in the search of your partner, absolutely.

But, you can find in internet that letters from that site in a great part, are written by the agency workers, not only the initial prewritten ones. So it is a total scamm if that is true.

That means that you are writing to a man or another woman and not the beautiful girl you believe is reading you. There are complaints of clients who found the girl in another site and she told them that she never wrote him. Or another cases of men that mention the possibility of traveling and real meeting, so the girl suddenly died or replied that she was not more interested.

I don't know if it it true, but I don't trust the site. I think that like you say there may be real women there, but how can you know?

Anyway, keep us informed about your succes or disappoint there.

I have prepared myself for the worst.

I have told myself this girl is a scam and I should know better.

So,his is what I am doing now..knowing better- by sending a rose and small stuffed animal.

I want to see the photo...if she refuses,then I know the game is up
and all was a pipe dream.

I am still at the stage where it will not affect me for long..:]

The Rose and gift were delivered today.
At least her name and address are legitimate.
I am now awaiting the photo that was taken of the delivery.
I should receive it within 24 hrs...
keeping my fingers crossed..

Great! What will happen after if you see her photo receiving the flowers?

If this is the same girl,
I will read her face/eyes in the photo and see if there is joy,deception or confusion.
Then, I will await her first email directly to me and ponder with you fine gentlemen,what the the next move should be...
I should be getting my photo from the Ukraine in the morning...

I have received a few emails teasing me, telling me it should be in my mailbox asap...
They sure like to keep you in suspense don't they?
The delay has to do with a middleman and that I only paid for the photo after it was taken.
It takes a bit to go through the system.
I will update this post whenever it arrives..
ZZZZZZZ!

I finally received the photo today...
She was the beautiful women whom I expected it to be-the same women who sent me 2 other real life photos
a few weeks ago and whom I suspect I have been sharing romantic discussions with this past month.
She looked very happy and pleased in the photo.. She was not ecstatic- alas from what I know, she is very calm and has a very calm Mona Lisa smile.
So where does this leave me now???
Well, I guess it it now another waiting game as I await another communication from her.
I imagine when I receive an email from her, it will most likely confirm I have been speaking to the girl in the photo.
I am still allowing myself a bit of doubt, as the agency could have written those letters and then sent the flowers to her and in reality, she doesn't know me.
But I ask why would she write so many nice letters to me and answer mey questions and not take any scam bait I laid out for her? What would be her purpose? She hardly seems like a gold digger..
I do not have a lot of gold to dig.
Stay tuned..

Good news, so the logical step is to receive direct mails to your private address, if she does it so it's nearer to be a real interested girl in you and not a business of the site, at least in this case. It will be interesting to see how everything goes with you, a real case.

Let's wait and good luck!