Age differences

Women are from Venus and men are from Mars..

An age difference of 20 years is much. - But in my age (59 years) I must also think of my partners ability to live on her own, if I for one reason or another cannot support her.

A woman at my own age will have quite many problems for example with the language.

I have seen quite many young people come to my country: If they are young they'll learn my language in half a year and communicate without problems.

And then I know some women who came to Denmark after the age of 40 and even if they have lived here for many years, their skills with Danish is very limited.

Living in a foreign country - not mastering the local language will isolate you a lot.

This situation I don't want for my wife to be in. - I want her to be able to live a normal life, if I cannot support her.

This is why I am looking for a much younger woman.

Hello everyone.
Thank you for your comments on this forum.
They have helped me greatly in avoiding the traps and finding another soul imprint like mine.

Age limits are really dependent on your lifestyle choices,thought process,age beliefs and inner child.
Age is just a thing we invented to measure time here on earth.
It really does not exist in reality does it??...
I have turned 40 this year but I am still a kid at heart.
I do live in a world class ski resort where all we do is extreme outdoor activities..
ie snowboarding,mountain biking,rock climbing,bungie,zip trek etc.
I work as a profesional dj and host all night dance parties as well.
I really think a women my near my own age would go crazy..unless she was still young and fearless.
When I am 60, I will still be skiing and doing things most 60 year old men would not.
I am not like many other 40 year old though I guess.
Most people peg me at 27 years old
I believe age limit of 20 years younger is just fine for me, as long as she is from
the east.
Most North American women would not have a strong enough maturity level to suffice.
I understand all the problems that you can run into in most cases,
as I recently just finished a 3 year relationship
with french girl who was 21 when I met her...
We are still great friends and I learned a lot in that time.
The most important thing I can say is that young women need the proper space to develop their own way as well as have the strong support of a loved one and a few good friends to make them feel complete.
Cheers
Anthony
-sorry for the sentence structure but it is 6.30 am and i am still wiping the cobwebs away..
:]

Every morning there is an old man looking at me in the mirror.
I don't know him. - He looks a bit like my father.
But it cannot be me!
Inside I am still a shy boy at the age 17 waiting to explore the life

Why is it that: While everybody is growing older and older, I am growing younger and younger???

I think that everybody should admit their age openly. - Age in itself is normally not the problem. In my country it is more like a tradition that an age difference of 5-10 years is acceptable, but greater than that is not.

I think it is really a matter of your personality and lifestyle. - Very often people are another age than their formal age.

If a man is 21 and his wife is 42 and they both feel well about their age difference, why should other people judge them for this?