What do Eastern women expect out of a relationship?

My last post asked “why an eastern woman would want a western man”, so this is a follow up asking what East European women want out of a relationship.
I understand that the world is a smaller community, and the internet has allowed us to expand our knowledge and our ability to make contact with cultures who were, but for of few of us just spots on a map before. This has allowed understanding and the ability to expand our search for love. But what is it that makes a lady from Eastern Europe search outside of her traditional homeland for someone? And what do they truly seek? I understand that everyone has there own reasons but with so many seeking a relationship so far from home there must be a reason, so can anyone enlighten me? Additionally I hear that a woman from this region are more traditional in their family values, is this true or is this hype to sell membership:?:

its true about the traditional values of the women, I have dated 2 russian women who live here, and both were similar in there upbringing and values, what suprised me was how many there are here in Florida, especially unmarried. The 2 I dated were here visiting family that was allready here, and it was obvious they were also searching for a way to stay, After doing a little investigating locally I also found that some, not all who are living here only stayed married for an average of 3 years, so what do you think? was this planned?

I think that like we have discussed in another forum posts, the reasons of being willing to have a relationship with an abroad man could be: A little amount of suitable men available for the bigger femenine population in Easter countries. That mixed with not very appropiate characteristics in some russian men behaviour.
I also think that the ladies seriously involved in this site have a great adventurous spirit that compells them to explore this alternative, not every russian woman is willing to take the risks and emotional challenge of online dating.

When I ask my friend.... She replied that single men over thirty are near impossible to find....or one that is family minded... And that we are thought to be nicer to our women...
Not my words.... Hers,

I normally do not reply on posts but I felt I had to.

We are in a global village called the Earth. Some members did indicate this. It has become just too easy to make contact. Now the real issue. The girls/ladies from Eastern Europe are no different than their sexes in Europe or in US. They are looking for their prince on that white horse. I believe they assume, that the men in the West are more cultivated and more worldly than their sexes in their own home country. We all know what 'the grass is always greener on the other side' means. I might be wrong, but that is what I believe. Escaping their town/village to become a world citizen is an argument too. The same motivation for the girls in the rural area's in US or other parts of the West to go to a bigger city to become worldly. If the only option to make that happen is to marry someone in the West, then they take that chance.

I would however focus on the men. What are they looking for? Why are they looking for an Eastern European female? Is it because they are not able to find their 'soulmates' in their own home country? Or is it because they can get the same quality female much easier in Eastern Europe than in their own homecountry? If I speak for myself, I like the way they are brought up, their education and similarly important I like the way they look.

I also want to reply on the assertion that the average marriage longs about 3 years. I believe it is the expectation. We should not forget that a relationship between two strange people brought in two different cultures, with totally different norms and values will be very difficult to continue unless alot energy is put in. If both sides are disappointed and do not feel they should invest in that relationship then it won't be sustainable.

I therefore suggest we look at ourselves as the males looking for a partner in Eastern Europe, rather than questioning the motives of the ladies.

well said Argun! it's true the same values can be found in the women at home, and I agree to make it last will be up to the 2 individuals, and to reply on the 3 year average, this was a local group I am refering to, not all!

I wrote of the difficulties before but also wrote all difficulties can be over come

Bravo Argun, well said...

Very accurate post Argun.

A new wife/husband has to wait approximately 3 years to get her/his Green Card.
My friend told me about his ugly relative who had been married to a macho man from Peru. The very day he got his Green Card, he filed for divorce.