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Forum readers have seen my story before. I met the love of my life on LoversPlanet. She arrived in the US almost 2 years ago and we are living the dream that many men and women on this site hope for. Now I have 2 new success stories to share with you. One of my wife's friends from Komsomolsk-na-Amure is meeting her dream man on a trip to China in 2 weeks. She has drawn inspiration from Lyuda's happiness. That gave her the courage to stay positive after her first try at an Internet relationship flopped. This time it looks really good. Meanwhile, I met a man from this site. He was corresponding with a bunch of LoversPlanet women and not having the results he wanted. He asked for my thoughts and here is what I said..."You are looking at too many women. You are sending bland emails, playing your cards too close to the vest, and they are not responding in the romantic way you are looking for. That's because they want love, not Internet chatter. Tell them who you are and what you want and why you have a STRONG interest in them. Tell them you are ready to fall in love and make a commitment. That's what they want to hear. You can't honestly say that to 10 women, but it's pretty easy to say it to 1 or 2 if you carefully survey the profiles and pick your 1 favorites." I looked at his list and picked 3 that looked ideally suited for him (not the same ones I might have picked). He agreed with all 3 and quickly eliminated 1 based on a couple of emails. Two weeks later he was hooked on 1 and she was responding as if she had found the love of her life...which I think is the case. He finally had the guts to write to me: "I am in love with Xxxxxx and she is in love with me. It's a miracle. It's wonderful." Gentlemen, it's not just a matter of writing to these girls; you have to be actively interested in picking one and falling in love! Same advice for the ladies.
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