Opinion, contacting women who do want kids when you don't?

What would you guys consider proper in my case? I can't have more kids, but I like kids. I have been limiting my search to those who don't want them or 'depends on partner'. My only hesitation is I may be passing up the perfect match, who may be on the fence on having kids. Should I search outside of this group or keep doing what I am doing?

I would let the girl decide. If you are honest up front and say you do not want or can not have more children, then she has a choice. She can speak or decide not to speak as she wishes. I would also contact any lady you found interesting. Perhaps when she sees your letter and communicates with you, she may decide choosing you is more important than more children!

I agree with jscottv - you should be honest with women and if she will decide to be with you she will be even if you can't have children, but if you will hide it from her and then when you will have communication with her for a long time and by accident she will know about it - you will have problem because of it and she will not believe you and your relationship can be broken. Just let her have choice and you will see. It's much better always to be honest. Your woman will be with you. You should search outside and only woman will decide what to do - you can't do it for her. Maybe really you will have a good match with one of the women that you had cut now. Good luck and let God bless you.

you'd better limit your choice to ladies who have children already. you are young and choising a young girl no matter what she says now, in couple of years she will definitely want to have children. the chance to meet the girl who does like children but who will refuse to have them because you can not have kids or who will agree to adopt children instead of having her own is appr. 0,1%. sorry but it is true

Ever heard of artificial insemination?

If she loves you, you will find a way.. if she doesn't, nothing matters!!

penezhina, thank you for the sound advice. I hadn't considered a woman might change her mind later, which would be a foolish mistake. If a woman has a child, that should be less of an issue. Loving a woman's child as my own will not be a problem for me, I like kids.

jscottv, I appreciate the help brother but I don't think so.

Maybe it is not for you... but I have friends who were in the same situation. They now have a daughter and everyone is happy!!

Perhaps you have never been married, but I can assure you the woman will reconsider ALL of her decisions during the years!! I wouldn't let the possibility of this one slow you down!!