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 Post subject: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Fri Dec 04, 2009 12:13 am 
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Hi!

I would like to hear your opinions, especially from the Ukrainian/Russian Ladies here.

I am new to the forum and I am not sure if this is off-topic or not, but here goes:

When is it appropriate to remove or hide your profile?

Thank you all. :)


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 7:00 am 
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I asked this question at the women's side of the forum. Will see what women are going to tell but certainly what boys think about is also intreresting


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Mon Dec 07, 2009 10:23 pm 
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>I would like to hear your opinions, especially from the Ukrainian/Russian Ladies here.
>When is it appropriate to remove or hide your profile?
Welcome to forum.
Unfortunately, there are very few ladies on this forum, maybe 3? Maybe someone could explain why??
It is not much different from dating in your country.
Certainly not if you have never met in person.
If you have met in person for sufficient time that you are not interested in other people except her,
and you both feel same way, then agree to remove ads if you both have concerns about it.
I don't see much reason for a man to post a profile. Someone told me when I was 10, you must go
to them, they won't go to you. But some web sites don't allow exchanging personal information by
emails, so in that case you must put your pictures and info in a profile.


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Tue Dec 08, 2009 2:08 am 
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I think there comes a point when you know your relationship is becoming more
then just writing hello how was your day letters back and forth with your
potential partner. I feel that if your interested in someone and you have taken
it to the level where your becoming more open and personal with your partner,
and actually speak like your in a relationship you should put your profile on hold.

Its not like your erasing your profile by any means,
its just telling other people that your unavailable at this time by removing you from
the available population. I think its kinda disrespectful to the person your speaking to if your
becoming personal with them by leading her/him on and still writing to other people.

Think would you do this if you were dating someone in real life? Do
you really want your boyfriend/girlfriend to be going on dates with other people behind
your back?

Just my personal Opinion.


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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Ok..I see boys are not in a hurry to tell when they are going to close the profiles :lol:

Women wrote near 25 opinions - if in short: those who were lucky to find their lovely men they are sure that it was right decision to close profiles a week later after they had understood that they were mate for each other (hmmm...the man was the first); those who are still in search think that they are going to close profiles only after they would be married...at least after the visit. All of girls are common with the idea that nobody is going to continue to speak with a man if he is going to ask and insist the woman must close the profile. It is better to avoid such men - If he is jealous it can be a problem in future - it is better to find out that this can be a problem just at the period of writing the letters (and escape). Any way there is a function to hide the profile but not to delete ;).

My own opinion — it will come naturaly — if you will find he\she is what you want... you shall not have questions to close or not to close. It wouldn't worry you — why worry if there is a trust??? If there is no trust don't build anything with this person!


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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Unfortunately, there are very few ladies on this forum, maybe 3? Maybe someone could explain why??


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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This has been changed. Any lady who wishes to reply here can now post on this forum.


I love this site!

I have written it before but my opinion is, when you are ready pull your profile. If you are sure but you know she is not, don't tell her. This way she sees you are concentrating on her but she can pretend she did not see. This way she does not feel the pressure to make the move before she is ready. Give her another week and then bring it up in case she truly hasn't noticed. The profile is a clear test for me. If she keeps the profile up after you have passed the 'discovery' stage and have moved on to flirting she is shopping and you should break it off.

I actually had a woman in chat tell me she was married. I looked at her profile, said single. Told her, she said 'I did not know, I will change', a month later, NO CHANGE. There are players and liars on both sides.


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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this question is somewhere on the top of the iceberg called "trust". From my point of view is it so.
Trust is a very deep and personal - even intimate -matter.
Making rules like "when is the right time to close the profile" and moreover, implementing these rules without personalization is harmful.

So, my personal advice to myself is very banal - listen to your heart :) And every time the decision can differ bcs any relationship is unique.
Systematisation is good for statistics, not for relationships of two :)


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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Tinna wrote:
So, my personal advice to myself is very banal - listen to your heart:) And every time the decision can differ bcs any relationship is unique. Systematisation is good for statistics, not for relationships of two:)


Good advice, there are to many variables in this question to answer easily. Just remember a man's heart is not as wise as a womans. We are too easily fooled by a pretty face. All we have is our systems.

With respect


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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cranberrytea wrote:
Just remember a man's heart is not as wise as a womans. We are too easily fooled by a pretty face. All we have is our systems.

With respect


:D :D :D
women chose to be fooled by handsome appearance and big pockets...


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
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Tinna wrote:
women chose to be fooled by handsome appearance and big pockets...


Your great advantage is your sisters. You help each other see, we look alone. For a man asking for help is a weakness. We will not even ask for directions. :D


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 2:34 am 
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cranberrytea wrote:
Your great advantage is your sisters. You help each other see, we look alone. For a man asking for help is a weakness. We will not even ask for directions. :D


well... I do not ask anyone..and most of the women decide themselves even if they ask for an advice
:lol: ..and long chats on females forums are just chats - chatting is our (female's) way of living :D


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 Post subject: Re: When Should One Remove ones Profile?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 5:58 am 
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I'd say this is much like the real (offline) life. When you are ready for commitment, and when you decide not to see other people, you call off the search. The thing that must be different from real life is that it's very likely you haven't met yet, and even if you chat a lot, there is still more room for misunderstanding than in real life. I agree with the girls, you should listen to your heart, the answer is there. And if it tells you you are ready, then tell her. I think we girls will like to hear this, and to know there are no other women now. And finally her reaction will tell you a lot. ;)


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