Ladies' Opinion

Mike don't take my words so personaly. I really know nothing about your accident and nobody needs your medicine card. This is only an example how easy the connection can be spoiled by past experience. The misundestanding can grow up even with out any reasons only because somebody had a bad experience at the same situation (you see nothing strange that your connection was stopped - this is not only my bad experience there were a lot of the same stories and advices from the other women). I think for such clever and social man as you are would not be difficult to find several new better connections more interesting and I am sure more exciting.

Many new adventures wait you in the future or even today...but if you think that this is the best lady for you - certainly you can find sweet words to return her trust I am sure no one can refuse you

Unfortunately Olga, when you use someone's name as example.. it does become personal.

I am sure you meant no harm, and I too also hope Mike does not leave. I just hope that in the future, when a point is being made that we do not use an individual as an example unless we know for sure that they are a problem because they directly tried to harm us.

Personally, if the girl left because Mike had a health issue he could not avoid and was out of town, then I think he is meant to be with someone else and that he has someone who is a better person waiting for him. I also think that any girl that would let him "get away" under such circumstances is very foolish indeed.

Guys Russia/ Ukraine women are alot better than American women..You need to understand there kind of life style, it's going to be alot different than ours...These women want to be married to someone that will love, care, help and be with them for the rest of thier lives...I don't undestand why someone of you are having problems with the women...Congrats !! to the guys who have found thier soulmate and true love !!! Alot of the women are very sincere about finding thier loved one and best friend...These women to Me are very awesome, loving, kind, truthful, loyal, honest and they are looking for the samething we are a soulmate and someone to be with the rest of thier lives !!! I am planning a trip in the next 2 to 4 months to go see the one whom I have been communicating, with for awhile now !!! Just treat these women with kind and respect and you will get the same in return..They all don't lie either !!! Take your time understanding thier language, it's not the same as Ours !!!

OlgaUkraine, I find it sad that you are so materialistic and greedy that you are here seeking money for simply helping others to better understand how to meet someone to spend their lives with. I do not speak Russian, but if I did, I would gladly translate for them to help better understand someone. I do speak other languages and I understand that translating is not always literal and that meanings can be different. I would hate to know that a wonderful relationship fell apart because of what was lost in translation, and I could have helped. It costs me nothing to help people understand each other, but I may earn friends by doing it.
It is women like you that scares me about this whole situation. I want to find a woman who wants a man to love her forever and spend a lifetime with. I don't want to find a woman who just wants a man to get her out of her bad situation and then leave him. I am here looking for love and a lifetime.

ok you can consider I am materialistic and greedy - this only shows that people are very very different...for example we haven't seen each other but can understand that we shouldn't be together or even friends...from the very begining you feel that my way of thinking is not well for you...so as you see to communicate before any serious steps is very important. Funny to think that the man will come to meet the hundred of girls and waits the agency will make the best of them to fall in love with him (he has only to show by finger which one ). But it is possible to find a nice compromise.... to find the best for you lady yourself win her heart...but explain her what do you mean "to love her forever"....I think it doesn't mean only to walk under the stars but the everyday life too.
I hope you are not materialistic at all and shall not ask her how much she spends your money? - you will give her as much as she asks with out any questions....no questions only hugs and kisses with the man who is attractive for her....if you are such man don't be worry no one woman will leave such man. If you are a little bit materialistic also (as I am) just tell her honestly what would be her life like...she wouldn't be dissapointed at the future.
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By the way what scared you the most of all?
- the fact that not all girls in their 20s want to marry the man in his 50s?
- the fact that many different beds can be dangerous?
But you are adult man with brains and can understand these facts yourself...

Nothing terrible to be scared - the women are the same as men - warm and open for love - bad and good - want the better life for themselves.

Olga, I will gladly give all that I have to the woman I love and be happy to do so. I would do this because I would know that she loves me for me and not because of what I give her. I want to know that if things changed and times became tough and money was scarce, that she would not look for the next guy with money in his pocket, but instead would stay with me and encourage me until I could once again provide for her the way she deserves. This is the woman I want to devote my life to and when I say "forever" I mean for as long as I shall live. When I meet the woman who is right for me here, I will give to her all that I am and do my best every day to make her happy. I will not do this because I am afraid I will lose her if I don't, but rather because I know I won't lose her, and because I know her love for me is genuine and very true. For this I would do anything for her because at that point, making her happy is what would make me happy. In my eyes, this is what makes a true relationship. I want to love someone and care about her more than I care about myself and feel that she has those same feelings for me, so you see, I want to provide material things and a comfortable lifestyle for the woman I fall in love with, but I just have to know in my heart that she loves me the same way.

I have fears that a lot of the women that are here seeking a husband are here only to improve their current situation and will do so no matter what the cost. This is a problem because this type of woman would soon get used to what you have to offer and then begin her search again to improve he already better way of life.

Now, having said that, I do believe there are very sincere women on here who are looking for love, and it is my hope to find one of those women, fall in love, and then give to her a life better than she ever imagined and treat her with love and respect, and make a life for the two of us that is full of happiness. This is why I am here, and I hope that I, along with everyone else here, can find what it is we are looking for.

Boys today by TV have heard an interesting information...imagin every man at his organism has 0,001 g of aurum (gold) but every woman has 0,006 g of aurum (gold)
you see - women are not greedy - we only need 6 times gold more than men... it is put by nature!!! even every molecule of the body

Hey Rusty hammer you hit the nail on the head, there are alot of men who want to be loved and there are many sincere women who want to be loved...I have found someone who is very sincere and loving, plus she is very honest and truthful...In distant day I plan to be with her, because Her and I feel, we are for each other..I wish you best of luck, in your special woman, she is here on this site....Scott

Hi Olga,

I read some of your comments. You are very humoristic and together with a deadly honesty this all is very entertaining to read. I am just curious, are you more in mathematics or more in languages. With your logics, I would think you are good at mathematics

Best wishes and happy women's day to you!

Eric van Kampen.

Eric, thank you for your congratulations - pleasant to get warm words How do you know about women's day???
Boys, didn't you forget to write something nice for your Russian-Ukraine girls For all women from FSU countries this is a great holiday - even free of work


if it is really interesting ...hmmm....to tell the truth - I am very very average ....and try to catch the gold middle...so it is pharm-chemistry nice balance between mathematics and languages

I forgot to write one small advice - I understand that you know it yourself but just to remind.

At the beginning a joke for you:
One boy is going to have a meeting with a pretty girl but she is going to take her sister with her. So he asks his friend to go with him to be a partner for her sister during the evening.
- What shall I do if I should not like her?
- Don't worry I shall buy double wisky for you after she whould be ok
So boys came to a cafe...friend opend the door and saw "the sister"
his words: "Ohhhh no!!!!! I can't drink so much"

Please pay attention at your fotos in the profile...sometimes it is just time to say "I can't drink so much"

Post better photos is great advice. You would do well to pass to your sisters. Men are visual, and we may be putting a year of our life into finding the right woman. Good pictures are required.

Guys, a good professional photographer will make you look way hotter than you actually are. If you are near DC I can give you a name.

I think most of us would also admit that a big smile is more attractive than a little grin. Frown or blank faces are for passport photos! With respect for the preferences of others I will say I prefer a lady in a pair of skinny jeans and a blouse to one in a bikini. (Ducking for cover)

I read these online post every now and then but rare comes the time when I would ever post anything myself. So today is one of these rare times. Vast are the reasons men have chosen to seek their life partner overseas instead of one in their own country. And I suppose its equal in terms of why some women in say Russia would be willing to leave all she knows and travel halfway around the world to live her life in a strange land. So many ideas about why we look here, and what we all hope to find. Scammers, users, dishonest gold diggers......yes even the bad ones are here in our little group. Its just so easy to not be so open and honest with our profiles after all we hope to attract the best one for ourselves and this often might make us less then what we should be. How many of you men have written to women for a while only to loose interest for the next pretty Russian face you see and just stop writting the last? How many of us have wanted to go visit Russia but in our minds we always known that would never happen but it just felt so good to be writing this young pretty gal from the Ukraine? After a time we start to forget its a real person on the other end as we seek to find our own selfish fulfillment.
Guys, before you ever start to write any of these women make sure your also the kind of man who would really be able to go over there in real life. They are NOT seek some internet pen-pal or cyber boyfreind but rather they are trusting in your honest and open spirit, that you and I are the types of men who are steadfast and folow through with our words.
Be greater then your emails.......be real and I think that you might just find that she is also.