Men? Why are you on this site?

When you are a paying member, the woman can tell you anything she wishes, including phone, email and address. Nothing prevents a paying member from sharing any information they like, plus with "video chat" you even get to see girls that you may not be able to see from another site.

If you have not been able to share this information, you have never paid and joined. You should try the pay features for a short while. I think you would like it.

I've paid a few times. Maybe, I haven't paid enough, but I couldn't find any phones, emails, and addresses in the women's profiles.

Anyway, there are many lovers' websites. If you want to spend everything you have, you can visit all of them.

I usually prefer to contact a girl whom I really like and obtain all possible information about her. Then I dream about her for a while and write a small personalized letter. It's time for me to take out the finest paper I have and my beautiful fountain pen. There is no rush, she won't appreciate it. If she doesn't reply, I don't care - it's still a pleasure for me.

So, you see. No address on the website, and I take my business to another place.

Also, I don't get your obsession about the women's chit-chat. I never read it. There are more interesting topics for a man: cars, guns, sports, travel, food...

barabaika,, you are a very curious person for me,, we certainly do think differently.

I can realize the pleasure found in actually writing and receiving a beautiful hand written letter, but I would reserve that for a lady that I have already determined I have a real interest in meeting.

For me, "chatting: is a good way to better acquaint myself with a person, its is like small talk in a restaurant or pub, a way to get an idea of what kind of person I am speaking with, see their expressions, listen to their voice. For me, all of this experience is required for me to decide if I have further interest,

One of the things I like about L.P. is the ability to see the profile, write a note, receive a response, then have a little conversation. If you like the person, you can request direct contact information and move into more direct communication using "Skype", email, an I.M. messenger such as ICQ or yahoo, telephone or even receive their mailing address so I could write a beautiful letter or send a small item... and not be restricted to communicate through L.P.

My experience here for the most part has been very good and I would recommend L.P. before any other site I have ever used.

always something here that keeps me laughing, what about you jscottv

What can I say?... everyone is different, that's what keeps life interesting!

You can laugh, but ladies like people who act differently.

Very little you can determine from the correspondence. I prefer to look at faces, eyes, lips. It's not about the girl's beauty, it's about the character. Very few are smiling, and this is the most attractive virtue for me.

You're a good man, I can leave all non-smiling girls for you.

But barabaika,

All the girls when they are around me smile.. they can't help it!

Well, how interesting. I do not think everything is in a smile. In fact I know many people how smile and are very superficial. To truly know someone, they're hopes, their dreams, and yes their disappointments, takes a much deeper look than at a mere smile. "No one said life if fair", people have lots of reasons for smiling or not smiling. These women are risk takers, they put themselves out there, just to do that is a major statement about who they are. But then I do not recall Bill Gates or Steve Jobs being very personable or smiling, but they changed the world. So look a little deeper. Of course I am one of those pesky results oriented Americans. I respect, very much, these women and what they are doing. They should be admired.

I like this subject; it’s a good way to find out what has been going on. Sorry people I was in an accident awhile back and lost contact with everyone on here for now I’m a basic member so can’t try to reconnect. But good to be back.

Hey mike welcome back and sorry to hear you had an accident, but good to hear your doing ok.

Mike.. I also hope you are OK!! I missed reading your messages.. I hope you have a happy holiday... Did you ever travel?

Never did travel I was in a wreck while working in Vietnam so was in and out of hospitals for the last several months. But I'm home now and feeling back to normal. Not sure when I will travel as I lost contact.

Thanks and nappy holidays to you all.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!
MUCH HAPPY
AND GOOD LUCK TO ALL MEN FROM THERE!

The magic of Christmas never ends and its greatest of gifts are family and friends... Best Wishes for a Merry Christmas to all men !!!.

Boys can anybody tell me what answer do you usually wait from your lady when you ask "do you have a boy-friend now?"

This question always makes me to be in perplexity what to reply...do you need "yes" or "not" - what for to ask?